SOCIAL WORKER | PROFESSOR | PUBLIC SPEAKER

Events

“Getting Out of the Box: Promoting Self-Preservation and (Re)Defining Success for Black Women in Higher Education and Healthcare at Stanford”

September 2024-April 2025

Centering individual and collective healing, “Getting Out of the Box” is an interactive workshop series that creates an affinity group for Black women to share and discuss topics relevant to the Black female experience. Rooted in Black Feminist Thought’s “self-definition,” this four-part series creates space for connection, exploration, and discovery by building community, holding space, validating experiences, and developing strategies to enhance intentional and long-lasting self-preservation.

“Measuring the content of our character: Protecting Freedom, Justice, and democracy in the Spirit of Kingian Nonviolence”

January 24, 2025

Kingian Nonviolence is a philosophy and lifestyle that requires constant self-reflection and growth. As such, I am drawn to one of the most well known quotes from Dr. King’s “I Have a Dream Speech” in which King dreams that one day his children will be judged by the content of their character and not by the color of their skin. As a licensed clinical social worker and scholar who has embraced the mission to inspire transformative growth through self-reflective identity development, I implore each of us to examine how we measure the content of our character, both in public and private. Are we truly protecting freedom, justice, and democracy for all? How do we navigate the principles of Kingian Nonviolence when life experiences test our boundaries and values? The true content of our character is revealed not only by what we show the world but also by how we act when no one is watching. We must hold ourselves accountable to both.

FEATURED ENGAGEMENTS

Shayla is an avid public speaker and has served as a keynote speaker, lecturer, panelist, and workshop facilitator for several events across the country.

  • African American Vernacular English (AAVE) is a dialect of American English frequently used in the Black community. Because communications conveyed through AAVE are often dismissed or discounted as ill-informed, uneducated, unprofessional, and grammatically inferior to Standard English, many individuals consciously or subconsciously code-switch (i.e., alternate between dialects). But how does code-switching impact self-perception and identity? How do we affirm ourselves against external responses that seem to dismiss the validity of our comments based on the dialect in which they are communicated? What can we do to access our internal power to engage as our authentic selves while navigating spaces that are still developing a culture of inclusion and belonging? This interactive 45-minute workshop and discussion will explore these topics by creating space to question unchallenged assumptions, honor complexities of experience, and make choices that best fit participant needs.

    Sponsored by Longwood University NAACP (student chapter)

    November 2024

  • As entrepreneurs and non-profit leaders, there is no such thing as a shortage of responsibility or an abundance of time. This is especially true when each accomplishment comes with fresh ideas waiting to be enacted. With too much to do and too little time, rest seems impractical, irresponsible, and ill-advised. Therefore, this 60-minute program is designed to support entrepreneurs and non-profit leaders by discussing effective strategies to rest amid unrelenting pressures to produce.  Watch online here.

    Sponsored by Enterprising Ventures of Color

    October 2024

  • What do our achievements say about our resilience? How might our resilience translate into activism? This emotionally-evocative presentation blends storytelling, group discussion, personal narratives, anecdotal analysis, and comprehensive research to explore intersections between achievement, resilience, and activism to empower participants to actualize their inner power and create a “more perfect world.”

    Sponsored by Saybrook University

    August 2024

  • Being a “Strong Black Woman” has received growing attention over the last several years. Originally used to dehumanize Black women, women have reappropriated the phrase as a source of cultural pride, strength, independence, and resilience. However, internalizing the Strong Black Woman (SBW) schema can lead to adverse mental and physical outcomes, including depression, anxiety, stress, binge eating, and substance use. With mounting pressures to perform, produce, and compete, it is therefore becoming even more necessary for women of color to be intentional about their personal and professional roles and responsibilities.

    The purpose of this day-long session is twofold. First, this session will conceptualize the Strong Black Woman schema, examining its paradoxical nature of having both positive and negative impacts. Concepts related to the Superwoman Ideal, a similar experience but inclusive of all racial categories, will also be explored. Second, the session will suggest potential strategies to aid in realigning the role of the Strong Black Woman schema in participants’ lives. The proposed strategies will be rooted in Black Feminist Thought, positive psychology, racial healing, and self-care and will promote community and empowerment. This session should benefit women of color who are passionate about prioritizing themselves over external demands and pressures.

    Sponsored by the National Conference on Race and Ethnicity (NCORE)

    May 2024

Past workshops, panels, and distinguished lectures

workshops and panels

  • “I’m Not Your Superwoman: Reclaiming My Strength, Healing, and Resilience,” 90-minute webinar, Stanford University, April 2024

  • “Redefining the Role of the Strong Black Woman: Balancing Healing, Rest, and Resistance,” 7-hour workshop, National Conference on Race and Ethnicity, New Orleans, LA, May 2023

  • “Redefining Strength: Finding the Balance between Healing, Rest, and Achievement for Women of Color in the Academy,” 60-minute workshop, Faculty Women of Color in the Academy, virtual live stream, April 2023

  • “The Use and Abuse of Anger in Social Change: When Pain Turns to Anger” panel discussion, Peace and Justice Studies Association, virtual, October 2021

  • “How Nonviolent is Your Social Action?” 90-minute workshop, Requity Labs Repair and Renew, virtual, June 2021

  • “Anti-Racism: What, Why, and How?” 60-minute workshop, Longwood University, Farmville, VA March 2021

  • “Women and Mental Health” panel discussion, Saybrook University, virtual, March 2021

  • “I Am Not Racist… Am I?” film screening and discussion, Longwood University, Farmville, VA, October 2018

Distinguished lectures

  • Keynote speaker, “Be Kind to Your Mind (Body and Spirit)” Rally in the Valley Undergraduate Social Work Conference, Richmond, VA, November 2023

  • Keynote speaker, First Inaugural “Inclusive Excellence Symposium on Diversity, Equity, Inclusion, and Belonging,” Longwood University, Farmville, VA April 2022

  • Keynote Speaker, “The Donning of the Kente” Graduation Celebration, Longwood University, Farmville, VA, April 2021